boy girl boy girl girl girl...

The rumours are true...bisexuals are greedy and promiscuous...maybe only me. Except I’m not promiscuous. I do want to have my cake and eat her too but doesn’t everyone?

I live with J in the Carib...DADT open relationship...last night there were questions asked and it’s no longer DADT, or open for that matter. Damn. I’m in love with J AND L who lives in my hometown far far away... I’m interested in open relationships and polyamoury. I don’t feel fulfilled in traditional style relationships and felt happy to learn that a lot of people don’t. Or is this just the seven year itch?

I remember feeling attracted to men and women since junior high. Initially I was more attracted to men and now I’m more attracted, almost exclusively, to women. L tells me I’m a lesbian. I don’t take labels seriously but L isn’t the manipulative type. She IS the third or fourth lesbian to tell me I’m gay so is that a ‘lesbian thing (like biphobia)’ or am I the dad on Kids in the Hall: Brain Candy? I’ve read that women’s sexuality is more fluid and that people tend to get ‘gayer’ not ‘straighter’ on the Kinsey Scale.


The next day:
J calmed down about L (I had permission after all) and L knew about J from the start so I think it's all going to be fine... Close friends talked me out of the 'who am I and what is my orientation' frenzy...as Margaret Cho said, "Am I gay? Am I straight? And then I realized: I'm just slutty. Where's my parade?"